I suppose no one can ever know what goes on within a couple. But I do hope someone writes a biography of Jacques Demy and Agnès Varda so we at least get to know a little more than we do now, which is that they met, fell in love, had a child to accompany that of Varda’s from a previous relationship, broke up, got back together in the end. We also know Demy was bisexual. To what extent is Le bonheur autobiographical, if not in plot, in feeling? We know that Demy was dying of AIDS when Varda filmed him for Jacquot de Nantes, something that Demy then wished to be kept secret. And we know that she loved him. Her camera caresses his hair, his face, his body, it pans through his skin, mottled with liver spots, and then on the off-chance you thought she didn’t love him enough, she sings him Terrain vagues by Jacques Prevért, with its beautiful connotations of land and sea, but also of incertitude, of a proximity that ebbs and flows but which nonetheless offers a love to drown oneself in:
Terrain vagues
Démons et merveilles, vents et marées,
Au loin déjà la mer s’est retirée,
Et toi comme une algue,
Doucement caressée par le vent,
Dans les sables du lit,
Tu remues en rêvant.
Démons et merveilles, vents et marées,
Au loin déjà la mer s’est retirée,
Mais dans tes yeux entr’ouverts,
Deux petites vagues sont restées.
Démons et merveilles, vents et marées,
Deux petites vagues
Deux petites larmes
pour me noyer.
I’ve translated loosely –I’m no poet, it can only be loosely — as follows:
Demons and wonders, winds and tides,
In the distance already the sea has withdrawn,
And you like an algae,
In a bed of sand gently caressed by the wind,
Dreamily stir,
Demons and wonders, winds and tides,
The sea has already withdrawn into the distance,
But two little waves remain in your half-opened eyes.
Demons and wonders, winds and tides,
Two little tears,
two little waves,
to drown myself in.
It floors me each time, making me wistful, sad — no one’s loved me like Varda loves Demy — and leaves me admiring: If no one’s loved me like Varda loves Demy, maybe one can learn to love as lovingly, fully, as openly and acceptingly as she.
José Arroyo
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