It might be heresy to say that I found Ta-Nehesi Coates’ BETWEEN THE WORLD AND ME – a letter to his son on surviving in America as a black man — overpraised. Toni Morrison found ‘its examinations of the hazards and hopes of black male life as profound as it is revelatory’. I didn’t find anything I didn’t know before, though to be fair, it all needs repeating, particularly at this time. It’s written in a James Baldwin style but whereas in Baldwin the language feels rooted in something biblical where anger and love intermingle in the articulation of injustice with the language of God tempered by an acknowledgment of human frailty, here it seemed to me to be derivative and performative, using a vernacular he is familiar with but outside of. The description of Howard University as a Mecca, a concept he re-utilises throughout, irked me by its all too representative invocation of American exceptionalism and ignorance of cultures, countries and continents outside its own (and don’t get me started on his use of The Dream, which he capitalises and deploys throughout, as his description of American’s self-sabotaging aspirations to Whiteness). Coates underlines his son’s privilege without accounting for his own in what he bears witness to, what he warns about. My model for explorations of racism are of course Baldwin’s essays, which are peerless. My model for books about advice to children in difficult situations is Lord Chesterfield’s letters to his son. Since his own son was born out of wedlock, Lord Chesterfield couldn’t bequeath him anything but his wisdom and advice, and since his son was a bastard without fortune, he’d face particular problems in making his way in the world. It’s a wonderful book, full of sage advice on everything from appearance to ethics. Samuel Johnson despised it for, ‘teaching the morals of a whore and the manners of a dancing master’. It’s what I chose to gift my nephew when he was getting to the age I thought that advice on how to move in the world – something I’ve been particularly unsuccessful at — useful. But Lord Chesterfield wasn’t American and wasn’t black and neither am I. Yet anyone who’s had a black boy in their family will know the fears for them are real and extend beyond the fears any family feels for its young men. Coates’ letter to HIS son describes the racism in all its terrifying levels. How to survive and overcome it remain questions. That said, I did enjoy reading it, and it was fascinating to see the changing referents (here hip-hop, a black president, etc.) to unchanging structures. The book is a decade old now and everything has gotten worse since its publication, with Trump rollbacks of key civil rights legislation, curriculum and DEI restrictions, and so on. I didn’t think it lived up to the hype though I’m glad I read it.
José Arroyo





















